Love is one of the ultimate light powers of the universe which continuously intrigues human Spirits by its exciting curiosities. Love is an incredible emotional essence that promotes great health and wellness when its mysteries are understood, embraced, and nurtured from within. With this, compassion and happiness will be empowered, creating a better sense of self-esteem and self worth.
When a person can embrace and accept all aspects of Love within themselves then honor, respect, trust and appreciation in others is recognized and cherished. The celebration and sharing of life begins!
Relationships with family, friends, co-workers, and intimate partnerships will grow whenever the natural ebb and flow of Love runs freely. Healthy love feels warm, and gives a great sense of security and happiness when found in its truest form between people (animals, too). Natural instincts, such as protection, compassion, caring, listening, learning and teaching with the intensions of love are some examples of the treasures to be experienced and held in the heart with fond memories.
The first step in creating self-love is to start at home where the heart is found. This is within you.
If you feel depression, anger, or pain from the past, a time will come for you to let it go. Example: You have just experienced a sudden, shocking break-up with someone you love. Hurtful things were said and it is devastating; the other person is moving on. Let the pain out with tears, art, writing, talking it out, or exercise, and let your heart grieve. There is no measurement of time on how long one should grieve, so take your time.
Write a short letter about the your feelings and the relationship. The first paragraph should consist of good memories and the times your own personal emotions felt of love. Identify with the good of this past relationship, and try to remember that you did learn from it. Embrace the love experienced from the past.
Write a second paragraph, putting your relationship with the other person to rest. Write about what could have been done. Forgive the pain that's manifested and it will be set free.
Burn the letter and bury it in a sacred spot if the need to do so is there. Place a marker at the burial spot, as a reminder that the particular relationship is at an end. Self worth and honor will be nurtured! If you miss the relationship, visit the marker. Use the time to think and to visualize a better relationship with self. Do not use magic on another person for love against their will, for this is not love, but control and fear. Magic performed to control another is considered black magic
A time will come when you are ready for a new relationship. You'll know because you will be feeling really good about your Self and issues of trust, security, and happiness. Welcome people with similar qualities into your life.
Here is a great spell to attract love:
Begin by writing a list of the important qualities that you and your partner have (present tense). Write five statements each under the five elements. Here is one example under each element: Earth = "My partner and I are financially secure". Air = "My partner and I communicate respectfully to each other". Fire = "My partner and I are passionate about life". Water = "My partner and I express our emotions". Spirit = "My partner and I unite our Spirits together for the good of all". You should end up with twenty-five total on your "Elemental Love List". Writing your affirmations in present tense will help you to achieve the desired outcome.
On the New Moon (except Saturday, then you should start the previous Friday), Take parchment paper and write the present tense affirmations using dove's blood ink (for love) and a quill or paintbrush. Bless and dress a purple candle (Spiritual Manifestations) with Venus oil (for love), spreading the oil in both directions, from wick to base and back (for mutual results). Place the blessed candle beside your parchment Elemental Love List on the receptive side (for acceptence). (The receptive side is your left if you are right-handed or your right side if you are left-handed.)
Relax. Breathe deeply, feel the bottoms of your feet and connect with Goddess above. Light your candle and read the first affirmation on your list. Close your eyes, then feel, sense, and know that this relationship is one you can create with someone who will love you in return. Open your eyes and repeat each affirmation just like the first one, until you are done. Take your time. Patience is an element of love. Once you are finished visualizing, snuff out the candle.
Repeat #3 just above, every night, once a night, for one full turn of the moon. On the dark of the moon, the 29th night, repeat the visualizations one last time and let the candle burn out.
Roll up your "Elemental Love Spell" and save in a sacred space. When that special someone is in your life, share the list on the first year anniversary of the day you met. Love can share this positive list!
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